An older sibling does not need to hold a pose or smile on cue to be part of a newborn session. At an at-home session, we can make a little room for them to get comfortable, try a simple portrait together and take a break when they need one.
Give them a small part to play
Tell your child they can help welcome the baby into the picture. They could choose where to sit next to you or show the baby a favourite toy. A small choice gives them something familiar to focus on. If they are shy, we can start with a parent in the frame. See how different ages fit into our family and sibling newborn gallery.
Start with one simple portrait
Try sitting together while a parent holds the baby. An older child can lean closer or look down at the baby if they feel comfortable. We can then try a sibling-only portrait if the children are settled and the photographer can guide the setup with an adult close by. Leave room for a spontaneous smile instead of asking them to repeat it.
Make room for a break
Keep a quiet toy or book nearby. If the baby needs feeding or the older child wants to play, pause and come back to the portrait when they are ready. Our newborn preparation guide covers what to have ready for the at-home session. The newborn package includes a family portrait setup, and siblings are welcome to join.
